A cheeky check if this is ok? Your child is social referencing!
Did you know… when your baby, toddler or child looks at you just before they leap (or try another new trick) they are using an important developmental skill known as social referencing?
Social referencing – looking at you to work out what’s ok
Worrying your child doesn’t understand how others feel? Tips to encourage empathy
Your child might be getting better and better at understanding their own feelings – but realising that other people think and feel different things is hard (and really important). Most of us want our children to be kind to others and to grow up aware of their own emotions and able to empathise with other people’s – after all, this is an important part of making and strengthening relationships. How then can you help your child see things from someone else’s point of view?
It is amazing how often the thing that will best support our child’s development is really simple – and understanding how people feel is one of those things! All you need to do is use words that talk about thinking and feeling when you’re chatting with your child.
Understanding and nurturing your toddler's self-regulation skills
Your toddler is responding to lots of new experiences every day, and as a result they will go through a range of feelings and emotions. It takes time to understand these feelings and respond to them, and even as they can do this, they will often need support (as we all do at times).
Self-soothing is often used when talking about calming down, maybe when getting ready to rest or sleep, or when sad or angry.