Making the most of bedtime stories

Bedtime can be the most magical of times to read a story (and be read to). The sound of your voice, your presence, your smell and your touch are without doubt some of the best things in the world to your toddler. Let’s have a look at how you can make the most of spending this precious time together... 

Set the scene 

The anticipation of getting all tucked up and cosy in a relaxed atmosphere will help them feel safe, secure and relaxed. 

Set the scene by dimming the lights, getting snuggly under the covers, and having all their comforters and toys waiting for them.  

Get creative with your voice 

Using your voice in different ways when you read can be enchanting for your toddler. 

Stories come alive when they are enhanced with singing. Singing a story can help draw your toddler into a comforting world of calm and security. Words can be sung to any tune – made up or not! 

You could try using different accents and introducing sounds and noises. Your toddler already loves to spend time with you, and hearing your voice using expressive sounds will be fascinating (and probably funny) for them. 

Stories don’t always have to come from a book  

Sometimes the best children's stories are those that give your toddler a feeling of comfort and belonging, while also helping them understand their world. 

Reliving the day is a beautiful way of reflecting on and remembering the things you have done. If you weren't together that day, come up with a story you can share with your toddler; they’ll like hearing about what you did when you were somewhere else. 

Time for a longer story? 

Hearing your voice is comforting, so bedtime can be a great time to start reading slightly longer picture books together.  

Becoming immersed in images and words naturally lends itself to spending more quality time together. 

If you choose to read a longer book, consider reading them on nights when your toddler is less tired. If your toddler is tired, a shorter book with lovely illustrations will give them enough to concentrate on. Think about what length of story will be most effective in lulling them to sleep. 

Having focused time helps your toddler to understand that being together is more important than anything else at that moment. 

Turning off any background noises when you're reading together will help your toddler be less distracted. Try to leave your phone in another room and give your toddler all the attention you can. 

If you are not feeling like reading a story at bedtime, it’s ok. Some days are more tiring than others. There may be someone else who can read a story, or maybe it’s just time for a cuddle together.