Keep on trying, no matter how tough it gets
Toddlers usually show a lot of determination and resilience. They will give it their all if they are set on doing something. They may get frustrated, but with their own motivation and with the support of others, they persist.
Leave ‘people pleasing’ to someone else
We all have our own thoughts and ideas, but we often find ourselves reluctantly agreeing with something, or saying yes to something we really don't want to do.
Think about your toddler. What would they do? Honestly, they would do whatever they wanted to. They only know how to speak the truth, and they will say whatever they want to say.
Naturally, adults understand that other people have feelings, so responding to others the way we truly want to might not be appropriate. However, think about putting yourself first rather than trying to please others and finding polite ways to say ‘no thank you’.
Always ask for help
As they are developing their autonomy, your toddler might not always ask for help as soon as they need it, but when they are in need, they will.
They often know when they have reached their capability and are not afraid to get help from others. This is a valuable lesson in life.
We all need help, no matter what, because humans rely on each other to get by.
From time to time, let go of the big picture of the day and focus on what matters in the moment. Sometimes the little things are the ones that will be cherished the most
Toddlers find fascination in the most amazing things. It might be a piece of chopped veg they found on the floor or a snail in the garden.
Think about the things that make you smile during the day. A cuddle with your toddler, a two-minute break in the bathroom, a bird flying outside.
One of your toddler's best qualities is their ability to find joy in the simplest things.
Express yourself! Sharing their emotions is something toddlers do well, as keeping emotions locked inside can become more difficult than sharing them
Your toddler will cry when they are unhappy, and they may shout or scream when they are angry.
Everyone benefits from expressing their emotions. Although we don't suggest screaming and shouting at others, talking about your emotions more openly can be beneficial.
Adults often hide their emotions. However, sharing our feelings with others can relieve some pressure.
By sharing your emotions when you’re with your toddler, they also gain a greater understanding of feelings and can begin to apply that knowledge to themselves; so you both benefit.