Five books that challenge gender stereotypes

Does your child sometimes say that particular things are for girls, or that they cannot do some things because they are a boy? Or do you get a sense when shopping that certain toys and clothes are designed with a gender in mind? 

Unfortunately, gender stereotyping is all around us, but with the help of thoughtful comments and actions from us as parents, we can support our children in questioning some of these stereotypes and be empowered to take part in whatever feels right for them. 

A wonderful way to challenge children’s thinking is by reading them picture books. 

Here are our top five books that challenge gender stereotypes. 

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1. Made by Raffi by Craig Pomranz

A thoughtful book that challenges the view that certain interests and activities are for particular genders. The book follows Raffi, who has an interest in knitting and, although ridiculed at first, saves the day with his wonderfully creative talent and skill. Not only does it highlight to your child that it’s ok to be interested in anything, regardless of stereotyping, it is also a gentle reminder to us as parents that we should let our child naturally gravitate towards things that interest them and not put them off with our words and actions. 

2. Pink is for Boys by Robb Pearlman

This book subtly explores some of the stereotypes that are linked to colour. It promotes the notion that children simply should be encouraged to love what they do, regardless of any connotations attached to it. This empowering book, with charming illustrations, will help you to get the conversation started about what your child thinks is linked to certain colours and such discussions can later turn into change, and challenging the mindsets of a future generation. 

3. Clive and his Babies by Jessica Spanyol

A great board book that very young babies can enjoy and which challenges from the get-go the idea that only girls can have dolls. This book focuses on the joy of playing, role-playing and caring for others and is part of a fantastic series about breaking gender stereotypes. 

4. I'm a Girl by Yasmeen Ismail

This book focuses on the main character as someone who is strong and fast and has a thirst for winning, so much so, that she often gets mistaken for a boy! The story takes her on a journey where she meets a boy who loves wearing dresses and playing with dolls. This book is a celebration of what it means to be you and will leave you feeling empowered that you and your child do not have to conform to society's views of what it means to be a certain gender. 

5. Not All Princesses Dress in Pink by Jane Yolen

This book is a celebration of what it means to be a girl and breaks down the idea that princesses must be into the colour pink, and love dresses and makeup! It beautifully demonstrates through stunning illustrations that you can be a princess if you enjoy climbing trees, getting muddy, wearing trousers, and doing anything that makes your heart happy.